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Anonymous asked: hi i really could use advice. i recently got a summer job and im COMPLETELY stressing over it. im a perfectionist, so when i mess up i ont let it go. i made a few mistakes each day (ive only worked 4 shifts) and im freaking out. the bosses are super strict and get mad easily. how do i deal with all this stress? ):
Starting out a new job can be stressful itself, and with super strict bosses I can only imagine the pressure they put you under, as well as the pressure you put on yourself. I can understand about the perfectionist part because I myself am the same way. I hate to mess up and everything I do I try my best at. I have learned when I mess up or don’t do something the way it’s supposed to be done properly I take a second, breathe, remind myself that there is always another chance to do it correct the next time. This wont come easy. It’ll take some time to work on it but I can promise you it’ll help you if it’s helped me. Before work I would also try relaxing, that way you aren’t feeling as anxious. Maybe read a book or take a hot shower? Do what ever you can so that you aren’t putting more pressure on yourself then you need because that could be the cause of some of you mistakes a well. I hope this helps! :) Let me know and good luck!